Mouth Soaping

Another one of the many possible side dishes often served with a main course of spanking, mouth soaping is a punishment to be feared. Although it is most often given as discipline in response to foul language, it can also be used for backtalk or just general misbehavior.

Just as a spanking can cause lingering pain, mouth soaping usually causes a lingering taste. This is especially true if the girl being soaped is not allowed to rinse it out as much as she'd like to. A simple grounding or removal of privileges might be met with a "whatever" attitude by older girls or women. The benefit of mouth soaping and spanking is that they are very difficult punishments to ignore in such a way.

While mouth soaping can be a punishment on its own, usually it is given before a spanking. I have also heard of it being used after or during. The girl might be led to a sink where a lathered bar is worked around her mouth for awhile or she may have to bite down and keep a bar in her mouth during her spanking or corner time. There are doubtless many other variations on this involving liquid soap and water mixtures, washcloths, cutting soaps to size, etc.

Knowing that a mouth soaping will make a girl drool a lot of soap, it makes sense for her to be without clothing for it. This also helps ensure she will be cooperative. If she is being difficult it can often be resolved with a few quick spanks to her bare bottom.

It is important to understand that even though most soaps are non-toxic(make sure the one being used is!), they probably can still be poisonous if too much is ingested. The same can also be said for other things like alcohol, salt, and even water. For this reason many people advise against using liquid soap, as it is easier to swallow high concentrations of it. The goal should be to get the soap into every part of a girl's mouth, not into her stomach.

Yahoo mash

As far as I can tell, no 360 friend invites are going through. All attempts to send an invite will fail. Who knows if this problem will ever be fixed. It certainly is not a priority with 360 being phased out soon. In the meantime I thought it would be nice to try something new.

Recently I got an invite to yahoo mash, which is in beta. It is something like a social networking site like facebook or 360. There is a friends list on it that actually works for adding friends, unlike 360. You can add or remove modules and some let you insert html, so it is more customizable than most things. The gimmick of mash is that you can edit your friend's pages. If nothing else it is a fun toy to play with and worth checking out.

If you are reading this and have not yet been invited to mash, contact me for one. This especially applies to people who have tried and failed to invite me as a 360 friend. Whether by 360 message, IM, or comment to this post, send me your email address and I will invite you. Invite your friends too once you get in. Let's make use of this thing!

Holidays & Birthdays

How often does a special day like a holiday or birthday end up being synonymous with discipline? For many girls easter weekend and spring break meant coming back home to visit family. Others attended large family gatherings with relatives. And still others went on some sort of vacation trip. Whether the discipline is intended to correct issues that have come up while away, a reminder to behave in the future, to maintain good behavior on a vacation, or as necessary for misbehavior during family events, there are plenty of valid reasons for correction to occur on these special days.

There are of course some who feel that holidays should be a time of reprieve for girls who misbehave. Days like these can often be stressful though, and allowing a girl to act as she wants without any fear of punishment probably isn't a good idea. The majority of people probably treat holidays like any other day though for purposes of discipline.

I'm sure most people have heard of birthday spankings. A girl's birthday seems an appropriate day to spank her in front of family and possibly friends. It is a rare chance for her to be the center of attention, and presents a good setting to give her a reminder to behave through embarrassment. If you've heard the term "birthday suit" then you might see how it applies to this day. It makes sense for a girl to be wearing her birthday suit during her spanking, or for part or the whole of the day.

The attached art depicts a girl obviously arriving from college. This woman, possibly a mother, aunt, or grandmother, immediately takes her clothes and pulls her by the arm towards the woodshed, switch in hand. The suitcase on the ground and shocked look on the girl's face lets you know it happened as soon as she arrived. This was probably not the welcome she was expecting, but it is a fine way to help her remember the rules and consequences of breaking them, or even learning them for the first time, now that she will be staying there.

On a final note, I saw something interesting on Wikipedia regarding Easter. Here is a quote and a link to the page.

"In the Czech Republic and Slovakia, a tradition of spanking or whipping is carried out on Easter Monday. In the morning, men spank women with a special handmade whip called pomlázka (in Czech) or korbáč (in Slovak), or, in eastern Moravia and Slovakia, throw cold water on them. The pomlázka/korbáč consists of eight, twelve or even twenty-four withies (willow rods), is usually from half a meter to two meters long and decorated with colored ribbons at the end. It must be mentioned that spanking normally is not painful or intended to cause suffering. A legend says that women should be spanked in order to keep their health and beauty during whole next year."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Easter

It certainly sounds like a fun tradition.

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Forced Nudity

When spanking is used as a primary method of punishment, there are a few different opinions concerning which articles of clothing should be removed, if any. It is possible to spank without any removal of clothing of course, but I think most people at least feel the bottom should be bared. Baring has the obvious advantage of allowing the spanker to see what damage is being done to the girl's bottom. Not to mention it is also embarrassing for the girl.

In a previous blog entry poll concerning the importance of embarrassment when disciplining, the majority hold the opinion that embarrassment is key to punishment. If this is true then taking a girl's top, thus rendering her naked, makes a lot of sense. There is no doubt that being topless with breasts exposed is more shameful to the girl being spanked.

What to do about returning clothing after the spanking is different among many people of course, but the major ideas I have found are these. Some girls get clothing back right after the spanking is over, some after corner time, and others have to go without for even longer than that. When a girl is forbidden clothing for a certain period of time it really is a punishment in itself.

In a previous post I wrote some about how my cousin was spanked growing up. One of the rules she had concerning being spanked was that whatever clothing was lost stayed off until next morning. This either meant she would go bare bottom or naked for the rest of the day, depending on what was removed when she was spanked. This was something like grounding her considering she wouldn't want to leave the house sans clothing. In another sense it was the total opposite because she wasn't allowed to hide herself in her room. In any case it was embarrassing for her and made getting spanked that much worse.

There are other girls still who lose clothing privileges for even longer than that. This could be for a few days, a weekend, a week, a month, or even more. You can really see at this point how forced nudity can be a dreaded punishment all on it's own even without spanking. Taking clothing privileges becomes like taking away computer time, phone, car keys, or TV. Still in any of those cases where privileges are taken, a girl may choose to disobey and pretend she somehow isn't being punished. The threat of a spanking would do much to prevent that.

One last thing I have found interesting is what is done with clothing after it is taken from a girl. In my cousin's case it always went to the hamper. There are other things that are done with removed clothing which seem like great ideas to me. Like hanging them up somewhere around the house, in front of a window, or outside. They would of course serve the purpose of allowing anyone who sees them to know a girl is being punished. I can also see how it would be somewhat like a symbol of defeat, akin to hanging a flag upside down. Does that make sense to anyone besides me?

I hope everyone had, is having, or is going to have a wonderful spring break by the way. And a wonderful easter weekend too. It certainly is coming around early this year.

Yahoo 360 Problems

It has come to my attention that friend invites on yahoo 360 don't always seem to go through. This means that some people I've attempted to invite never received them. This makes things difficult because I can't know if an invite was ignored, not read before it expired, or was just never received at all. It is safe to assume this is true for all 360 users.

I have not ignored any of the invites I have gotten so far. If you have tried to invite me and got no response, it is definitely because I never received your invite. If this is the case please try again. It is interesting to chat with new people and I would really hate to think I am missing out due to technical issues. If invites fail just post a comment to this entry and I will try to invite you. Even if the comment system is buggy and gives errors, at least you can tell when they are posted (if you hit refresh enough times that is).

In case anyone isn't aware, yahoo 360 will be transfered into a new yahoo blogging/friends/profile system this year. Hopefully when it is rolled out it will be mostly bug free from the start.

Happy Saint Patrick's day to everyone by the way. Attached is a relevant illustration by endart in celebration of this holiday.

Video: Spoiled girl throws tantrum

Has anyone seen this video? It is a nice example of what can happen if girl grows up without any sort of discipline. She throws a tantrum over getting a Lexus on the wrong day and even curses at her mother over it. In front of a nationwide audience no less. Is anyone else as shocked over this as I am?

Disciplining in Public

The idea of disciplining a girl in public is one that I know some people are strongly against. To quote one girl I talked with loosely, "it is between my mother and me, nobody else." This seems true at first glance, but a girl's behavior can have an affect on anyone she comes into contact with. In the picture from my previous post the boy was certainly a victim of the girl's misbehavior. Most would agree that he deserved to see justice done. But what if a girl misbehaves in a public place in front of strangers?

The main issue of course is not appeasing the people who may have seen a girl misbehave, rather it is about making sure the girl does not repeat the same misbehavior in public again. Waiting until later at home seems viable, but delaying punishment might give a girl a sense of being immune while she is in public. This would cause further misbehavior. The same might be true if she knew public punishments would be excessively mild or without any loss of clothing. It is understandable that a full punishment would not be able to take place in public, but it should still be a significant one. Punishing again or more at home later is a given.

If we assume embarrassment is an important part of the disciplinary process, doesn't punishing in public make sense? The added embarrassment from being punished in front of others like a child would certainly drive the lesson home that much stronger. This would encourage good behavior in public.

It goes without saying that some places are unsuited to punish in no matter what happens. Places like a public library or the movies for example, where it is important to be quiet and let others focus. Yet even those locations have bathrooms or parking lots that would offer a place to discipline. It makes sense that a public punishment would be a spectacle and cause some people to stare, but it shouldn't be a direct annoyance to strangers. Imposing too heavily upon people unknown to you isn't a good idea.

Although the punishment in many people's minds would mostly consist of bare bottom spanking it could be other things too. Simply taking away clothing on the spot or having a girl wear some sort of punishment outfit might be enough alone without spanking. I have even heard of applying burning creme. I'd be interested to hear what other methods people use when they deal with misbehavior in public.

Importance of embarrassment

Here is a great piece of art by Eve. I like how she puts a small background story on most of her work, it really adds a lot to it. In this one a girl of 19 receives a spanking from a boy she had been previously tormenting while her mother holds her still. Notice that the mother employs the original otk position to keep her daughter from escaping the punishment from the boy with the ruler.

In a situation like this the mother could have simply spanked her daughter in private at home over the offense, yet she chose to bring in the boy from next door. This was a good idea for two reasons. First, the boy who was wronged would most certainly gain a sense of satisfaction over seeing his tormentor punished for her misbehavior. If the mother had decided to spank her daughter in privacy the boy would have still harbored resentment after. Second, the added embarrassment of the boy seeing her bared, crying, and begging is sure to make the punishment more memorable for the daughter. After a punishment like that the daughter will be much less likely to misbehave around the boy since he knows she is subject to being spanked. Thinking along those lines it makes a lot of sense for people who regularly interact with a girl to be informed of the method in which she is disciplined beforehand.

A poll over whether or not the girl in the art deserved to be spanked by the boy would likely be pointless. I'm sure most would agree she deserved no less. Instead I will make a poll over the more general issue of the importance of embarrassment or humiliation during punishments. Is spanking just about the stinging pain? Or is pain only a step towards the goal of putting a girl in her place through humiliation? Are punishments involving embarrassment only and no spanking effective?